Thursday, December 31, 2009
Happy New Year あけましておめでとう
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
End of the semester and hello vacation
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Exhausted
I know I'm so close to being done, but not close enough. I'm losing sight of the end and could seriously use some lovin, maybe some hugs. Hugs are always nice.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Thanksgiving
I spent it here in Oberlin for the second time, in favor of being close to the library so I could work on my senior capstone for Religion instead of spending it with a family, which was probably a good choice even though I felt bad for not going.
Myself and 9 other people filled TWC with food, music, dance, and love. Plus the intimate candle environment, wine (mmm Pinot and Nouveau), and desserts. It was a really wonderful thanksgiving and it made me feel so much like an adult, cooking my own thanksgiving. Then we had a dance party, but that's totally thanksgiving, right? Great weekend spent with great people. Couldn't have asked for a better last thanksgiving in Oberlin.
And now I'm 2 days away from finishing my Religion capstone. I'm slightly freaking out, but also just really excited to have it done. 8570 words later and I'm still not done. OMG. Soon though, very soon, and then I won't have to think about it for a very long time. yay.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Long distance
Monday, November 16, 2009
A week of, omg my feet and quads are sore.
Monday I went running (whaaaaaat?)
Tuesday was Latin night at the 'sco (awesome)
Thursday was Safer Sex night (whoa, interesting)
Friday was Swing dancing and Modesto's late birthday party (omg prospies gettin it)
Saturday was Rebel Diaz and the Dream Act Week fundraiser (hello random people)
I've had to wear my cushy shoes cause my feet are still a bit sore, I think it was the heels on Thursday that really did me in. But it was awesome. A week full of dancing made me so happy, and made taking care of 42 SOC prospies okay and not finishing my draft on time acceptable.
Can we do this everyday? Oh wait, next semester I will. woot!
Saturday, November 7, 2009
me, sports?
Monday, October 19, 2009
the hardships of being a fan of LA sports
Let's recap though, with the exception of basketball, and even that has been recent, LA sports haven't been very good. Before the arrival of Phil Jackson, the Lakers hadn't won for 10 years or so, as far as I can recall the LA Kings havn't made it to the Stanley Cup like ever, the Clippers have almost never been good, the Galaxy have only existed since 1996 and won twice, we have a constant battle for a football team, the Sparks have done well, thank God, but the team in question at this point, the Dodgers, haven't seen a championship since the time I was born, 1988. So really, no need to chant Beat LA, it's not like we've been winning everything.
Let's chant Beat New York (stupid yankees, don't get me started)
or Beat Montreal (they've won the Stanley Cup 10 times more than anyone else)
or Beat DC (4/13 MLS cup winners)
or Beat Houston (4/13 WNBA winners)
I think it's plausible to say we don't deserve this nonsense, chant your hatred at other people, please, cause the Beat LA chant is so unoriginal and sooooooo annoying.
California, the Golden state, and apparently in need of tourism
Apparently these commercials have been out for some time now and I just never notcied, partially cause up until 3 years ago I was living in California and of course they wouldn't show these commercials in CA, and cause up until like 2 months ago I basically never watched cable. Still, it was rather amusing.
Oh CA.
Monday, October 12, 2009
being vegetarian/vegan
i chose to become a vegetarian for environmental, ethical, and health reasons. and i'm very comfortable with that fact. i feel like a much healthier person and i'm not constantly wondering what i'm eating, if it's bad for me, where it came from, and how it was raised. Sometimes though, with the presence of a bunch of vegans around me, i wonder about the rest of my diet.
ok, so granted, i'm not going to give up cheese, i just can't, it's kind of essential for drinking wine. but last summer i was pretty darn close to being vegan while i lived with my sibling and it wasn't difficult. i like soy milk and when you aren't doing any cooking with eggs it's easy to not eat them. the problem here is in baking. and yogurt, well, i like it, but i don't really eat it on a regular basis. so really the issue here is cheese, which i couldn't give up last summer either as i ended up buying expensive farmers market cheese (which was the best gouda i've ever had).
i think about it though, giving up all other animal products. I'm already a pretty strict vegetarian, no fish, i try to avoid butter, i try to not buy leather and i'm just more conscious of what i'm eating. all these people around me are doing it, and for very similar reasons, so what is keeping me from taking that next step. i wonder.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
unmotivated?
Not that I don't care about school, it's that I don't care about the work that I'm supposed to be spending the majority of my time doing, which I am clearly not right now. I don't mind doing chemistry, or reading for other classes, I'm just so tired of focusing my energy on one thing for the past 9 months.
Fall break is approaching and I can't even be excited cause I have to be here to work on my capstone and work in Admissions. I haven't been home for more than 4 days since last summer and I haven't started building my bike at all and yet my break will be full of other, non fun things.
I just want to enjoy my senior year. And go running. and play lacrosse.
Wednesday, October 7, 2009
Fall
Lissette and I talked about our lives for 2 hours, telling stories, enjoying the afternoon, not doing our work. It was the best thing ever. I dangled my feet off the edge of the bridge, made cloud shapes, and watched a bug drift along in the water, not to mention talking and soaking up all the sun I can get before it's too cold and snowy to do so. Perfect afternoon, I'm glad I didn't do research or have work.
Lissette, you made me day so much better.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
homesick?
Let's do a brief recap.
The weather is shitty here, and beautiful in CA
Two of my best friends from high school are pregnant and I want to be with them now.
I really don't want to do work right now, especially for my capstone.
I'm an attached sort of person and right now I'm building friendships to replace ones that have been forced to be in the background because of location and things and I just want some serious hugs, that's what I need, serious hugs from Jennifer or anyone and to put my head on someone's lap and have them play with my hair.
I want time back, I want to be better at keeping up with people so when it got to this point I wouldn't feel like this.
Spanish music strangely makes me feel better.
Monday, October 5, 2009
birthdays
I realize I'm like 2 weeks late, but I really just wanted to say thanks to everyone who helped make my birthday special, from cards and trips to the feve and mandarin to cake and having one of my life goals fulfilled (thanks Angelica and Lissette, that meant so much to me).
An uneventful day really, I went to class, out to eat, class again, picked up a cake, went to North Olmsted, then the feve. Being 21 is really not that much different, except now when I go to dinner I can get wine too, and I don't have to bother other people to buy my alcohol for me anymore, thank goodness. The best part is being able to really celebrate with other people when they turn 21.
And so, it's not just about me, it's about all birthdays. To all my September birthdays, I love you guys, and Eric, you're close enough. And to everyone, I'm a birthday person, I think they are really important in a person's life, so let me know when yours is and I'll say at least happy birthday, if not more.
Birthdays, they rock.
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Biking, touring style
The tricky part here is getting a bike. Seeing as I'm not a serious biker, I don't exactly have the proper bike to be touring with. My first plan was to look on craig's list, because buying a good bike new would cost way too much money. However, the Cleveland craig's list listings are not very extensive in the area of touring bikes. So I did some talking to people and the plan as of right now is for me to build my own bike.
Don't get me wrong, this frightens me just a little bit. I know very little about bikes, and the little I do know I learned last summer while going with my sibling to buy zir bike. So here I am, knowing nothing and attempting to build my own bike. The positives: it will be cheaper than buying a bike in a store, cause I get to use the resources of the bike co-op and order through a bike retailer and I'll be doing all the labor myself. I'll also learn how to put it together, so if anything goes wrong on the trip I can kind of be our mechanic, which is good. Negatives: I do have to put in the work, and in order for me to use the bike co-op's services, I have to put in 10 hours of work throughout the semester.
Still though, I'm getting familiar with the bike co-op, which I'm sad I didn't use more often in my time here at Oberlin and I'll be spending the summer after I graduate with my favorite sibling and other cool people biking through Europe, which is exhilirating and terrifying at the same time.
I'm sure updates will surface on the status of the bike throughout this semester, trials and tribulations, ups and downs, all that stuff, but I'm excited and ready for the challenge.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Senior year
After I graduate, I will in fact be a part of the real world, paying bills, deciding my future, and doing all sorts of grown up things. Granted, I'll break the stress by biking through Europe next summer and I am technically already paying bills, but still, the real world is terrifying, and so is having to do everything myself. There should be co-ops everywhere so that I don't have to cook every one of my meals. In addition to needing to find a job, I'll soon be off my parents insurance. Now that is terrifying. For all of my life I've had great health care (thanks mom and dad), but that ends once I graduate and that's scary. I've seen my sibling try to do the real world without health insurance and it doesn't seem very fun, I'm not excited.
However, this is it, the last stand, my last year of college to do everything I ever wanted to do. I have made a list of all the things I want to do before I leave Oberlin, which includes, among other things, going to a rugby game, getting a picture of an albino squirrel, and going to more observing sessions at Peters. I also need to take lots of exco's my last semester and just be doing awesome things. With the exception of possibly going back to grad school, I'm done with school, which is so relieving. Don't get me wrong, I've loved my time here, but sometimes you just need a break from all the classroom learning.
So I'm transitioning to on the spot learning. I'll be biking through Europe with my sibling and a few other people this summer and since I don't have a proper bike, I'll be building one at the bike co-op. The benefit of this is that I can do it cheaper since I'll be doing all the labor myself and I'll learn first hand how a bike works and hopefully will better know how to fix things once we get over in Europe. I'm super excited, it's going to be an amazing experience and I really love spending time with my sibling, especially since zie will be heading back to school soon too.
All in all, the future is frightening, but living in this moment, so close to my 21st birthday, is so wonderful.
Friday, August 28, 2009
Wrap up
Texas. Oh the Southwest. How I love thee.
I was born in a desert and have developed a love for the heat, I crave sunshine and that feeling when you sweat and all your skin gets super moisturized and it's awesome. So after being away from the California heat for a very long time, I really appreciated my brief time spent in Texas to relive my love for Cali.
In all honesty, we didn't do too much, I was the only one up for the heat really, so a lot of time was spent indoors watching tv and movies and chilling. Don't get me wrong, that was cool too, but I really like being outdoors and soaking in the sunlight. We did however spend a wonderful afternoon at the botanical gardens, complete with ridiculous pictures and plenty of fun. We also had lots of Sonic (if you don't know, don't even ask, it's just awesome) and then made dinner one night which was a big success.
The trip was great, but sad, cause it's the last time I'll be seeing a good friend of mine til January. I'm not a very emotional person, with certain exceptions, and goodbyes are one. I have a fear that people will leave me, and so goodbyes aren't the funnest. And I really don't like crying, especially in public.
I just got back and somehow I start school on Monday, which really freaks me out. I'm not ready for school to start, to write research papers and deal with people back on campus. I'm not ready for it to be real that people have graduated/gone abroad and won't actually be here for my last year. I'm not ready for summer to end. I'm not ready.
On the plus side, I feel like I grew a lot this summer. I've learned a lot about myself and other people and I feel like I've solidified relationships that mean the most to me and done away with others that I don't need in my life. So hopefully I'm on to better times and a great last year here at Oberlin.
OMG school.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
personality types
Introverted Sensing Feeling Judging
ISFJs are characterized above all by their desire to serve others, their "need to be needed." In extreme cases, this need is so strong that standard give-and-take relationships are deeply unsatisfying to them; however, most ISFJs find more than enough with which to occupy themselves within the framework of a normal life. (Since ISFJs, like all SJs, are very much bound by the prevailing social conventions, their form of "service" is likely to exclude any elements of moral or political controversy; they specialize in the local, the personal, and the practical.)
ISFJs are often unappreciated, at work, home, and play. Ironically, because they prove over and over that they can be relied on for their loyalty and unstinting, high-quality work, those around them often take them for granted--even take advantage of them. Admittedly, the problem is sometimes aggravated by the ISFJs themselves; for instance, they are notoriously bad at delegating ("If you want it done right, do it yourself"). And although they're hurt by being treated like doormats, they are often unwilling to toot their own horns about their accomplishments because they feel that although they deserve more credit than they're getting, it's somehow wrong to want any sort of reward for doing work (which is supposed to be a virtue in itself). (And as low-profile Is, their actions don't call attention to themselves as with charismatic Es.) Because of all of this, ISFJs are often overworked, and as a result may suffer from psychosomatic illnesses.
In the workplace, ISFJs are methodical and accurate workers, often with very good memories and unexpected analytic abilities; they are also good with people in small-group or one-on-one situations because of their patient and genuinely sympathetic approach to dealing with others. ISFJs make pleasant and reliable co-workers and exemplary employees, but tend to be harried and uncomfortable in supervisory roles. They are capable of forming strong loyalties, but these are personal rather than institutional loyalties; if someone they've bonded with in this way leaves the company, the ISFJ will leave with them, if given the option. Traditional careers for an ISFJ include: teaching, social work, most religious work, nursing, medicine (general practice only), clerical and and secretarial work of any kind, and some kinds of administrative careers.
While their work ethic is high on the ISFJ priority list, their families are the centers of their lives. ISFJs are extremely warm and demonstrative within the family circle--and often possessive of their loved ones, as well. When these include Es who want to socialize with the rest of the world, or self-contained ITs, the ISFJ must learn to adjust to these behaviors and not interpret them as rejection. Being SJs, they place a strong emphasis on conventional behavior (although, unlike STJs, they are usually as concerned with being "nice" as with strict propriety); if any of their nearest and dearest depart from the straight-and-narrow, it causes the ISFJ major embarrassment: the closer the relationship and the more public the act, the more intense the embarrassment (a fact which many of their teenage children take gleeful advantage of). Over time, however, ISFJs usually mellow, and learn to regard the culprits as harmless eccentrics :-). Needless to say, ISFJs take infinite trouble over meals, gifts, celebrations, etc., for their loved ones--although strong Js may tend to focus more on what the recipient should want rather than what they do want.
Like most Is, ISFJs have a few, close friends. They are extremely loyal to these, and are ready to provide emotional and practical support at a moment's notice. (However, like most Fs they hate confrontation; if you get into a fight, don't expect them to jump in after you. You can count on them, however, run and get the nearest authority figure.) Unlike with EPs, the older the friendship is, the more an ISFJ will value it. One ISFJ trait that is easily misunderstood by those who haven't known them long is that they are often unable to either hide or articulate any distress they may be feeling. For instance, an ISFJ child may be reproved for "sulking," the actual cause of which is a combination of physical illness plus misguided "good manners." An adult ISFJ may drive a (later ashamed) friend or SO into a fit of temper over the ISFJ's unexplained moodiness, only afterwards to explain about a death in the family they "didn't want to burden anyone with." Those close to ISFJs should learn to watch for the warning signs in these situations and take the initiative themselves to uncover the problem.
Functional Analysis
Introverted Sensing
As for ISTJs, the dominant Si is oriented toward the world of forms, essences, generics. Again, "for both of the IS_J types, the sense of propriety comes from the clear definition of these internal forms. ... A 'proper' chair has four legs," etc. (Jung saw IS as something of an oxymoron: sensing, which is a perceiving function, focused inward and thus away from that which is perceived (the "object"). In this light, he described this sensing as something removed from reality, full of archetypes/mythical figures/hobgoblins; sensing of one's own set of forms.)
Extraverted Feeling
A kind of "regression toward the mean" provided by the Fe auxiliary function serves to socialize the expression of these forms. I suppose it's the auxiliary nature of this Feeling, coupled with the balancing effect of {detachment from the internal idiosyncratic view of free-floating data perceptions} that makes ISFJs tentative, conservative, and reticent to boldly state the rights and wrongs in the relational world. (Loosely translated, ISFJs like to keep their perceptions to themselves, and aren't sure enough that what they "see" as Introverted Sensors has any relevance to the outside world. Thus the perception, based on unworldly data, may not be true. The obedient Extraverted Feeling function must therefore refrain from strong statements expressing these opinions.)
Introverted Thinking
Introverted Thinking is turned inward and is largely invisible. It is only with great difficulty, if at all, that the ISFJ could willingly commit anyone to their doom. Perhaps this explains why ISFJs are loyal to the end; there is no sense of purely objective (i.e., impersonal) judgement of anyone but themselves (and that only by their own standards). Here is this type's achilles heel that makes many of them so vulnerable to the scoundrels and ne'er-do-wells who often use and abuse them.
Extraverted iNtuition
ISFJs are easily undone by Extraverted iNtuition, their inferior function. Believing in the fantastic, and disbelieving the technologically extant, are errors that my guide the gullible (or unfoundedly sceptical) ISFJ off a precipice of mis-conclusion. (One of our co-workers' mothers adamantly refused to believe that Dave Letterman's mom was actually at the olympics in Norway talking with the athletes and handing out hams! She suspected technological trickery.)
This childlike Ne is, however, the likely source (coupled with fun-loving Extraverted Feeling) of the practical joking, punning and (usually harmless) impishness of some ISFJs.
Famous ISFJs:
St. Teresa of Avila (Teresa de Jesus)
Louisa May Alcott
Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Queen Elizabeth II of England
Robert E. Lee
Queen Mary I ("Bloody Mary") of England
Fictional:
Bianca in Taming of the Shrew
David Copperfield
Hero in Much Ado About Nothing
Melanie in Gone With The Wind
Ophelia in Hamlet
Dr. John H. Watson, M.D. (Sherlock Holmes' faithful sidekick)
- U.S. Presidents:
- William Howard Taft
Robin Roberts (Good Morning America)
Kristi Yamaguchi, US Olympic figure skater
Ed Bradley, journalist
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
I'm an attached sort of person
Maybe it's a fear of losing people that mean so much to me, I don't know. But every time someone leaves me or I leave someone that I care about it, I just can't deal. I don't do the long distance thing, I'm bad at keeping up with people. Though there aren't too many people that I planned on keeping in touch with from high school, I epic failed at keeping in touch with some of my bests. And I don't want that to happen with my college friends.
Things have been ok so far. The internet has helped some. Though for some reason I'm not quite the instant messaging type. It gets the job done I guess, but I much prefer emails or phone calls. I think the best part has been that some of my favorite people have left me small pieces of their life and that has helped a lot.
Daniel left me his bike. Which I use everyday to get around.
Lauren left me cubes to organize my desk with, which I see all the time in my room.
Jo Ling left me her dying begonia which I water on a regular basis.
Saki left me a blanket, which I will be using often.
So to anyone who just graduated, who might be coming back, I'm a pack rat and will keep anything you give me. And to those who will be here after me, I'm already starting my legacy, so watch out for the gifts.
Moral of the story, I miss people, a lot, and it got more real when the last one left me on Saturday (Saki come back) and I want everyone to come back and just be in one place.
I still love you all even though you left.
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Cards cards cards
I blame my mother.
For as long as I can remember, my mother has been buying cards at Hallmark, she's a card buying fiend. She has the Hallmark rewards card and box to store all of the cards she isn't using. For those of you unfamiliar with people who frequent card stores, like myself, we tend to buy cards for all occasions and not just when we need them. For example, on this most recent trip, I bought a card that will function as a half-birthday card (cause apparently they don't make any) plus a couple pick me ups and a thank you. You never know when you're going to need a card, so I stay prepared.
Most sane people, go get a card when they need it and don't spend too much time looking around at the different card options. I could spend so much time in a card store looking for the perfect card. This is where the problem comes in. I can find a card for almost anything and perfect for almost anyone as well. I think part of that is because my mother has always done a great job giving/sending me cards for every occasion from birthdays and christmas to valentine's day and new years. So I have it instilled in me that cards are good all the time. I send cards for birthdays, thank you's, get well, just to say hi, reminder that I care, and apparently half-birthdays as well.
Now, I went to both American Greetings and Hallmark and asked if they had half-birthday cards and both said no. I was not too surprised, but also sad. Part of me wants to ask why and then say that I would create them, although I'm not quite sure what they would say. I know the perfect card when I see it, but that doesn't mean I can create the perfect card. Regardless, I feel like there are enough people who celebrate half-birthdays that it could warrant a niche market. You could get really creative with it too, only half a card, with writing on each side, or a really small card, or funny things about being half a year older or I don't even know. Maybe it's just me.
So moral of the story, I love cards, sending and receiving, so much so that I think I have a problem.
Monday, July 27, 2009
A Childhood Passed Over
It's been a good time here in Oberlin for the summer, though very unproductive with respect to the interviews I was supposed to be conducting for my research. Nevertheless, I discovered the public library here is wonderful and though the first couple of books I checked out were serious, who was I fooling, I didn't want to be reading anything that required thought, I wanted some fun books. Ok, maybe fun is the wrong word, more like, can't put it down cause you want to know what happens next and a really quick read. It turned out that this was going to be a fairly easy task.
As it happens, I feel like I missed out on a bunch of those books that you're suppossed to read as a young adult. This was possibly a combination of poor book choices in my lovely school and the fact that I was probably reading above my grade level for as long as I can remember. I mean, when you're younger all you wanna do is read the same things that your cool sibling and neighbor are reading right? And when they are 4 years older than you, sometimes you miss that necessary young adult time. We did the summer reading program at the library every year, and managed to read books about animals and fun fantasy stuff. So I decided it was time to play catch up.
It started out with me wanting to read all of the Madeline L'Engle time series. I had somehow managed to read A Swiftly Tilting Planet after I picked it up at a used book sale, thinking the cover art was pretty, but said book is actually the last in the four part series, and I wanted to read all four in order. I also decided it was about time that I actually read all seven books of The Chronicles of Narnia, instead of just The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe. Included in this fun I'm finishing a series that has managed to penetrate my family so much that sometimes people use analogies from the books. And then, in a last moment of fun browsing the young adult fiction section, I found The Giver and Number the Stars.
I've enjoyed every minute of it, staying up late and reading instead of reading on interview techniques (I'm sure my advisor would not appreciate this post if she found it) and passing out on my bed, in my day clothes, on top of the covers, with music playing in the background, only to discover at some odd hour of the morning that Saki has come and closed my computer and turned off the lights. What a great housemate! Sometimes I wonder what I'm going to do without her, but that's for another post.
Hopefully though, I'll be able to accomplish much in the last month and while I'm in Texas, again another post, in terms of catching up on my childhood reading and my research. But regardless, at least I have discovered all these wonderful books that I will only be able to rediscover again in the future.
Although, I think next on the list is a book about running (what? Liz reading a book about running when zie hates to run?) that comes highly recommended from my sibling. Apparently Born to Run was lifechanging on the order of The Omnivore's Dilemma so I thought I would give it a shot. Woot. Maybe I'll have a better feeling towards running when I'm through with it. Maybe.
Thursday, July 23, 2009
Packages
I swear my mother spent her whole life dreaming of the day she would have kids and so when she was single and we were little she hoarded just about everything she could manage. This has come in quite handy as I have moved into my very own apartment as previously mentioned in other posts. Towards the end of the school year I notified my mother that I would need her to mail me my comforter for my much larger full size bed. We had talked on the phone about some other things, like a pot she had lying around the house and some things they got at the strawberry festival, which I have missed for 3 years straight after attending it for at least 10 years. Regardless, when the package arrived for me at the beginning of the summer, I was pleasantly surprised to find more than the aforementioned 2 items. The large and quite heavy box included
comforter
"small," but really in fact large, frying pan
2 boxes of maple cookies from tj's
1 box of delicious things we buy from costco
shirt from the strawberry festival
rice cooker
shopping bag
cups
plates
jar opener
mung beans complete with family recipe
Aside from the obvious excitement of finding lots of things that I didn't actually ask for, the best part was probably the notes that were attached to just about everything in the box. The rice cooker was lying around in the garage which I should take good care of so I could use it later, the jar opener was free at the strawberry festival, the shopping bag also free, the plates from when she was single and the mung beans came with both her version as well as my grandma's.
The box was so heavy, I had to ask my friend to drive it back to the house I was staying at. But I thoroughly enjoyed it and everything has come in super handy, especially the rice cooker!
My mother recently sent me another package, this time complete with more of the things I had asked for, like dish towels, bread pans, ear phones, masher for mung beans, and a hair catcher for the shower. Other items included
2 more boxes of maple cookies
3 boxes of ziploc in different sizes
the cutest little 1 oz jam jars
sponges
And again, there were notes to accompany things, though this time only the dish towels. The first note read "These are clean. That is why they're in ziploc bags. These are Costco towels." The second read "These are older never used not Costco towels. I've had them for maybe 20 years." My coworkers thoroughly enjoyed hearing about the history of my dish towels and also enjoyed the box of cookies I shared with them. When I called my mother to inform her that I had received the package, she asked if I could tell the difference between the dish towels and when I paused a little too long, all she said was, "I used to buy such thin towels!" I think I'll have to share this with my coworkers.
All in all, the two packages this summer have made the summer more manageable and the apartment more liveable because now I have actual house items. Though it's a little weird that my mother kept the plates she used when she was single or dish towels that are 20 years old is indeed a little strange, but I'm grateful, cause it meant she (nor I) didn't have to spend the money for all these things, with the exception of mailing fees.
I only hope that everyone could get the exciting and cute packages that my mother sends me.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Most likely to grow my own food.
We were recently messing around and came up with summer superlatives. This ranged from loudest to foulest to chattiest. I was awarded most likely to grow my own food, for which I am quite proud. Following that, it may come as no surprise that I really like plants, as the title of this post would suggest. It started at a young age as I spent every summer taking care of my neighbor's extensive garden. Though she had purely decorative plants, through our own backyard I quickly learned the value of growing your own food. In our small suburban backyard we have managed to fit the following trees: orange, fiji apple, persimmons, peach, banana, lemon, grape vine. We also have a variety of herbs and at various times also grew strawberries and zucchinis. The summer and fall seasons you can imagine were quite pleasant with all the fruit we grew. Between my backyard and my neighbors, I developed a love for all types of plants and a pretty good green thumb.
Through three years of college I had managed to gather 3 plants, one of which I was watching for a friend because she almost killed it. And yet, now that I have an apartment, I have managed to bring my personal total up to 10, plus the 5 I'm caring for over the summer and the 3 I recently gave away. Aloe plants are pretty awesome in the fact that they create offshoots with their own root system that you can then easily remove and re-pot and quickly multiply the number of plants you have. This is exactly why I needed to give away 3 plants, my own little way of carrying on an Oberlin legacy.
But anyway, back on track. I was voted most likely to grow my own food and I'm quite proud. Cause you see, I would love to do just that. I want a yard and I want to grow crazy produce for myself and others if possible and maybe for Gio's pay/work as you eat restaurant which would be amazing with delicious homegrown produce. If I could do Oberlin over again, I would spend a summer working on a farm, or I would have gotten involved at the George Jones farm earlier.
Moral of the story. Grow your own food, it tastes better and you save a lot of money. And plants are awesome.
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Change is good?
Life has been quite of an adventure since January in so many ways. School was kicking my ass, the love life was interesting enough, friends were made, others friends weren't seen to spend time in the library, and there were sad goodbyes.
The summer brought a lot of change. For the first time in my life I would not be returning home for the whole summer. Basically, if I follow the trend of the past 3 years, I will be away for 10 months. I have a new job, though I guess it's technically the same office, but still, new skills to learn like interviewing and giving tours, which has been awesome. I've gotten closer to some people, and bonded with my impromptu roommate Saki more than ever. I've been observant, only observant, because there is no more drama in my life. I've also taken to baking a lot, eating well and loving being in Oberlin.
But the change was somewhat difficult at first. It's always difficult to leave your comfort zone, lose friends, not go home, start a new job. I don't think anyone can say that it's easy to leave what is comfortable, but it's necessary. Sometimes we choose to do it as in the case of a new job, but sometimes it's involuntary as in the case of a friendship awkwardly ending.
As all the changes in my life stacked upon each other my mood changed drastically, from positive, to absolute dread, to enjoyment. I guess it just took a little getting used to and acceptance of my current situation and that it's not my fault. Always good to have positive feedback that it's not my fault (Thanks Tommy)
Sure there's part of me that wants to go back to the way things were, just cause it would make life easier at times, but the change was indeed good and I now welcome it.
Friday, July 3, 2009
Are we really free? equal?
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.
Now, I'm sure that is indeed a good reason to celebrate and don't get me wrong, I love picnics and fireworks and blankets and creative uses of the colors red, white, and blue, but let's think about this for a second, are we really free? are we all equal?
I'm sure there's plenty of people who think they are, but there's still a large percentage of Americans who aren't really free. Let's think about the millions of Americans who are questioned every time they come back into the US, or questioned on a regular basis by their peers because of the color of their skin or the way they dress. Let's think about the millions of people who are in this country fearful for their lives because they might get deported or their children might get deported or anyone they know might get deported. Let's think about the millions of Americans who love each other but are not allowed to get married simply because of who they happen to love. Let's think about the millions of people who don't have health care, who don't have access to proper groceries, who don't have access to a proper education? I don't think we're free, or equal, because in order to be free and equal, that must hold for all Americans.
So this July 4th, let's celebrate, but remember there's still a lot that needs to get done.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
oberlin is awesome
I think I'd like to start with this past weekend. It was Oberlin's 4th annual chalk walk. A day full of chalk art and fun in the sun. I didn't actually get to go see everyone lining the sidewalk, but I went that evening to see the day's creations, and boy were they wonderful. Oberlin brought in a couple of local master chalk artists and the rest went to the town locals. Business did some creating advertising, the post office did variations on stamps, the library had literary characters and fruit, and all the kids drew the cutest stuff ever. All in all, it's the best thing in the world right now, to get some ice cream in this crazy heat and stroll around downtown just checking out super cool art.
Second, is the lack of cars on the road, making for nice bike rides out with friends. Cindy, Gio, and I got out on our bikes, and rode for about 20 minutes, just cruising around, enjoying the green and the houses and each other's company. I think we plan on doing this more often, cause it was a really lovely way to be outside and active. Afterwards, we ventured into Tappan, relaxed on the new tree swing and chatted before getting ice cream and heading back home. We're also planning a picnic in the near future, getting dressed in cute summer clothes and sitting out on a blanket
Third, is the fact that I get to talk about how awesome Oberlin is and get paid to do it. Could I think of a better campus job? Nope. I love talking about Oberlin, and I love being able to do that all summer. It's also a big plus that part of my job involves being outside in beautiful Oberlin and then eating popsicles on the hot days. It helps that most of coworkers are amazing, cause, yes, it's Oberlin, and they aren't douchbags.
Fourth, as I've mentioned before, is the public library. They have all sorts of DVDs I can borrow for free (!) to fry my brain, or CDs to enrich my musical world, and lots and lots of books to enlighten my mind. And the people are super friendly cause the town is small and they talk to you when you check out and they ask how the kids are and cute town things like that.
There's lots more, but it's all relative, like the fact that my dear friends are here and that we spend lots of time together and cook and go places and just hang out.
But you get the point, I love it here, and I'm sure that will come out in a lot of my posts.
Wednesday, June 17, 2009
Being grown up
Cooking is perhaps my favorite part of having a real apartment. Though I'm not actually cooking at my apartment (I eat all my meals at a friend's apartment) I do have to cook and clean and do all that good stuff. We've made some great meals, and being the only vegetarian in the house, I've done a great job adapting everything they make into something I can eat. Granted, they've also been very considerate to make two separate batches of things or leave out the meat. If I had the money, I would have loved to get produce from the farm for the summer, but that's out of my budget range.
I'm also quite a fan of not having to pay for laundry. Quarters are one of my favorite coins, perhaps cause of the most recent (but sadly now over) state quarter campaign and the bicentennial drummer boy quarters. Thus, I was saddened every time I had to spend quarters just to clean my clothes. Now I can put in the laundry and not have to worry about someone else taking all the machines and I can listen to loud obnoxious music at the same time and dance too.
In many ways though, this summer has made me reminisce over last summer. A wonderful summer spent with my sibling reading, cooking, doing lacrosse things (I'm still working on trying to get some sticks here), and just being environmental together and loving plants. My sibling is quite wonderful, although I probably have a biased opinion. You can see for yourself though, cause zie has a blog as well, though zie hasn't updated recently. boooo. We had good times, and I guess I'm just hoping this summer will be just as nice, possibly better cause I like all of my coworkers this time around.
So here's to hoping I actually get all my research done and that this summer is as awesome as the last.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Food, Water, Waste
As many people may know, Michelle Obama, with the help of some local elementary school kids planted a garden in the White House lawn in March of this year. By the time NBC did their special "Inside the Obama White House," the garden had already grown 80 pounds of lettuce and herbs used by the white house chefs in the Obama meals and sent a local homeless shelter. The students also went back to their school and are now growing a garden at their school. Can we talk about how awesome that is? Let's bring back the days of Eleanor Roosevelt's victory gardens, when home gardens accounted for 40% of America's produce.
Then I visited the George Jones farm this weekend, which I've always felt tied to as an Oberlin student, and especially as a member of the co-op system (we send all our compost to the farm). The farm is great. It's 70 acres of land, most of which is used as a nature preserve, to restore the natural habitat of Oberlin, which is unfortunately swampy. But they've done a great job since taking over a corn and soybean farm in 2001. The farm now takes in all of Oberlin College and OSCA's food waste and returns that in the form of delicious produce. The restored natural habitats have brought back 65 different species of birds, including 4 endangered ones, deer, and of course all the bugs that come with it all. It was perhaps one of the most awesome things I've done here at Oberlin and gave me hope that food can be grown locally, in a good way. Rest assured, I will be returning more often, not only for the delicious strawberries and beautiful horse Kate, but also for the pleasant 2 mile bike ride there as well.
Last, I've discovered the amazingness of our local public library. Perhaps it's small, but impressive collection has been pushed by Oberlin students and progressive Oberlin townspeople as well, but regardless, you can find many great things there. Most boast about it's extensive DVD collection, but I've recently been able to find great books about waste, bottled water, and our food system. So far, I've only gone through Elizabeth Royte's Bottlemania and Garbageland, but I already never want to throw anything away again. The numbers are disturbing really. The amount of waste we generate daily, the percentage of that waste that should have been recycled or composted, that only 11% of water bottles were recycled (can we really call it that?). It's really quite disturbing. And though the battle between tap and bottled water goes much beyond the environmental impact of water bottles and transportation, I'll stick to my tap water any day, unless I do get seriously ill or mysteriously pregnant.
I worry for the world, I really do. We don't care enough, and the things that are ruining our atmosphere the most are the things we can't control, like the chemicals used in industrial processes, not the kind of car you drive (and even then, you can't control the fuel to air ratio). In The Omnivore's Dilemma, Michael Pollan relays a startling statistic that the average American diet is 70% corn and soybean based. You may be thinking, no, that's not true, but when you realize the amount of high fructose corn syrup you consume, or that all processed foods have emulsifiers and preservatives that are corn and soybean based, the number becomes frighteningly true.
I'm going to do my part to recycle all I can (especially your old electronics) and just waste less in general by consuming less. I'll also drink tap water and do my best to eat locally, and even if I can't, I know my food waste will make it back to the George Jones farm where Aaron and company will turn it into food for others to eat. And let's start the revolution to bike to work. It's not just me, it's admissions counselors, deans of the college, and even our lovely president of the college, Marvin Krislov. So let's care for once, and do something about our future, cause I for one do not see us going anywhere good on the path we're on.
Thursday, June 4, 2009
Admissions Office fun
In the span of about a week I became entrusted with giving tours, interviewing prospective students, answering emails, answering phones, and showing people how to do things. Kind of crazy if you ask me. I'd say that I've done a pretty good job rising to the occaision, more so than some other people I can think of. Not that I don't love my coworkers, but some of them are a bit much.
Other than that, everything is about the same. Same group of counselors, same likes and dislikes, same filing, same being the most senior person, same goofing around in the intern office. Though I've definitely grown in my time here. I have more serious conversations with the counselors about things, like life and the office drama and alcohol. None of them question that I can drink (even though I shouldn't legally be drinking) and I feel like they really respect me.
Overall, it's the same office I've loved since my freshman year, the same office that gave me a reason to stay for so long, the same office that trusts me, the same office that puts a smile on my face each and every day. When my last days come in that office, I guarantee there will be amazing presents to go around. They've earned it.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Commencement
Commencement is also a sad time. Saying bye to friends who you might not every see again or friends you'll be away from for a summer, or a semester, or in certain cases for a year. So here's a shout out to my bests, cause I know ya'll are the only ones who read this anyway.
Daniel - my blog buddy, we're starting a revolution with these blogs, for real. I love your bike, it's shortened my work commute so much and helps me remember you always. I can't wait til I see you next in Japan, it's going to be amazing, I just know it. Sorry I had to kill the 2 person secret, but you know you were always the first. Oh Son!
Lauren - always supporting my wino habits (remember you bought me the first bottle for the year for my birthday party and it was extra good) I don't think I could thank you enough for dealing with my drama and listening to me and giving me advice and overall keeping me sane through everything. One of my fave co-workers always. I'll always think of you I say Oh No.
Cheska - my FASA homie. you've made sure i kept it crazy these past couple years, taking me under your wing and showing me the ropes, although you sure left big shoes to fill. i don't think anyone will ever throw parties like you did or make me laugh at the most ridiculous times like you did. we went through it this semester and now it's time for celebration.
Jo Ling - who knew that after that one meeting in the 'sco for merengue madness we'd grow so close. From work to physics, I've been able to tell you so much and I value our friendship so much for that. We've had good times though, and I'm glad you're coming back to visit me, cause we never properly said goodbye.
Saki - p chem is about all I need to say. And work on Tuesday and Thursday mornings. I remember last year I didn't work with you and so many times Lauren told me that I would love you and I do. You're a great person, making me laugh and making me check what I say and always making sure that I love you. Always remember, it was me that gave you your first all nighter experience.
Jazmin - leaving me for a year. I'm still not sure how I feel about that, but I'm sure I'll deal. We'll have Japan for sure though and two person secrets. And everything in between. You know someone is a good friend when you can't exactly remember how you met, and it's so blurred for you, I know we can survive your little adventure abroad.
Alma - it's been a crazy year and we've been through a lot, but you know I'm always here for you no matter what. We bonded hella fast and I'm ok with that, cause i trust you and I could sense that from the very beginning. New Mexico was possibly one of my best breaks here and it's all thanks to you, who knows, there could be a vineyard coming your way soon.
All my summer companions (Cindy, Anne, Gio, Tommy, Kyla, Chris, Haydee) - I know you will all help me through it. And trust that I will throw dinner parties at my apartment, once I can move in, complete with wine and DELICIOUS vegetarian food, regardless of whether you are or aren't. It'll be long, but I know we can make it, together. I need you all, you all mean a lot to me and I'm excited for the extra bonding we'll have during these crazy, kinda isolated months together.
If I forgot you, know that it's not that you didn't have an impact on my life, but it was probably in subtle ways that I won't recognize til it's too late. All the seniors have made this a solemn week and I know I don't show it or talk about it like others, but in those moments before I drift to sleep, I remember you all and how much I really miss you all. (Insert tears on computer here)
I love you all,
Liz.
Sunday, May 3, 2009
wine makes everything better
Some of my closest friends are graduating and leaving in less than a month. On to exciting things in various places, cities and countries. And so, I've made sure to spend time with them all, with my favorite beverage, a nice bottle of wine.
My favorite part about wine is that it's such the perfect drink for dinner/postdinner chatter, you have a glass that you can swirl, a drink to constantly sip and smell for different flavors and aromas plus an all around good time. That's exactly what this weekend was for me.
I got some of my closest friends together, drank a bottle or two, or more and just talked about life. We caught up on recent events in our lives, funny things that had happened and things we were doing that night after we all parted. It's always nice when you can get a group of people together and have pleasant conversation over good wine, I feel like that's what I strive for with many of the bottles I open. Sometimes it works, other times it doesn't, but those times that it does, are so worth it.
Only two of those people will actually be graduating, but they'll both be leaving the country to pursue other endeavors and a third will be leaving the country for the coming semester. All in all, it was a nice farewell to some of my favorite people, I couldn't have asked for a better group of people to share my last bottle of wine with.
Thursday, March 26, 2009
Let's open up a restaurant in Santa Fe
I spent the past week or so in Santa Fe, New Mexico and fell in love with the place. I'm sure it helped that half of my meals were free with the exception of putting tips on the table and that I spent it with two awesome people, but even without that it was a wonderful trip.
I got to add two new airports to my list (ABQ and STL) on this trip which of course made me excited. I also had my first actually relaxing vacation with a trip to the spa complete with hot tub and sauna as well as a one hour full body massage. We discovered the hippie side of Albuquerque and Santa Fe, fell asleep during the movies Sideways, W, and Milk, drove up through Northern New Mexico, went to beautiful religious sites, and ate some of the most delicious food ever (and I put chile on almost everything!). I also loved meeting Alma's family, who are some of the sweetest people ever, and I'd help them with Math any day.
Overall though, I felt that Santa Fe was a kind of hippie place and so friendly. At first impression you just think that everyone knows each other, but in reality they are just all so friendly to each other that you wouldn't be able to tell the difference. I also really love that Santa Fe, and I guess all of New Mexico that I saw, has embraced their desert-ness. As an Angeleño, I can say that we are in denial about the fact that we live in a desert, which is characterized by the need to have green lawns and plants that would not natively grow in the area as well as stealing water from everyone else. New Mexicans on the other hand are not allowed to water on certain days of the week cause people like those in Los Angeles are stealing their water and they embrace it. The desert is really a peaceful and beautiful place and I was really reminded of that in New Mexico.
New Mexico also has another big plus working in its favor, and that is you can produce wine in certain areas. According to the locals it isn't that great, so maybe one day I'll be able to change that and open a vineyard and winery with quality wine. While walking through downtown Santa, Alma and Tommy even decided to point out possible locations for my store. Though that may be a ways in the future, I did get my wine fix in New Mexico. Alma made it known that I was a wino and so in my first couple hours I had a Cabernet-Zinfandel blend at her aunt's house, bought two bottles of a 2007 Stag's Leap Sauvignon Blanc for the dinner we cooked and then had some Chardonnay that was already open. I must say the Sauvignon Blanc was quite wonderful and went well with the dinner we cooked and the delicious Italian cheese we bought.
I'd love to make it back out there someday, and who knows, maybe I'll spend 6 weeks in the area teaching middle schoolers math and science stuff. Who knows.
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
I gave in
I decided to name my blog flying wino because it encompasses two of my favorite things, though I've never had the occasion to have wine on a flight, but I'm sure it will happen one day. Regardless, I love flying and have a strange memory of 3 letter airport codes and airline hubs and I love wine, especially a good chianti classico. I'm not exactly your average college student, but then again, I feel like most of us here at Oberlin aren't average college students.
Well, that's enough for a first post, especially cause I'm currently sitting in class, but maybe I'll actually keep up and write updates from time to time. We shall see.